TAMPA, FL. – The ex-girlfriend of a male porn actor recently opened up to The Free Press about what led to the April 14 arrest of the man she once “probably” loved.
Alex Corsmeier, 30, of New Port Richey, is an amateur porn star who promotes himself as a web engineer, systems architect, and video producer to the business world. He is facing felony charges for shooting a pellet rifle three times, which he aimed at ex-girlfriend Caroline Sankowski as she sat in her living room.
A Hillsborough County Criminal Report Affidavit states “the victim was sitting where the shots were fired.” The report states Sankowski had recently filed an injunction against Corsmeier that had not yet been served.
Under Florida’s Contraband Forfeiture Act, the City of Tampa Police seized Corsmeier’s 2015 Honda Pilot after taking him into custody when he returned after the shooting. He was charged with “shooting within or into a building while occupied.”
A judge set bail at $10,000. Corsmeier was released two days later and has pleaded “not guilty.”
Sankowski, 33, filed a domestic violence complaint during June 2020, claiming Corsmeier had been “Baker Acted” several times and suffered from schizoaffective disorder, including hallucinations and delusions which “cause him to believe that aliens, God, the devil talk to him and tell him to do things.”
She also complained that Corsmeier was not taking his schizoaffective disorder medication and that he received monthly antipsychotic injections that “wore off.”
Sankowski also reported that among other violent acts, he had choked her, slammed her head into a wall, pulled her by her hair, punched her in the face, and restricted and monitored her access to the internet, family members, friends, and co-workers.
In her interview with The Free Press, Sankowski said Corsmeier owns the website “CarolineSankowski.com.” It accuses her of being a “dangerous sociopathic narcissist” and claims she had bullied a female porn star who thereafter committed suicide.
“He created that website,” Sankowski explained. “He likes to destroy people’s character after a break-up.”
An extended review of online threads reveals how much suicide, sexual jealousies, and hearsay abound in the world of sex workers.
Admitting she had been a female porn actor with Corsmeier, Sankowski said “I only got involved because his ex-girlfriend was causing his business failures.”
That ex-girlfriend was allegedly Fifi Fox, another female porn actor whom Corsmeier sought to destroy through a website similar to Sankowski’s. Fox may be the ex-girlfriend whom Corsmeier threatened to kill, according to Sankowski’s domestic violence complaint.
Corsmeier owns five websites, according to his alexcorsmeier.com account. His porn star site, “Aiden Valentine,” boasts he is the “#15 male porn actor on XVideo with one billion views.” He also indicates he specializes in XXX, fetish, and “taboo sex” adult videos, including roleplays of incestual relations.
Sankowski was asked where her interests lie now. “I’ve always been interested in the outskirts of law enforcement, like domestic violence advocacy. I’m hypervigilant now – I’m always looking over my shoulder. But with the domestic violence hotline, a lot of advice that can be given is not, like how to diffuse a situation. I’m working with a soon-to-be-lawyer friend of mine on an idea of building tiny homes for domestic violence victims as a better solution to domestic violence shelters.”
Sankowski indicated she has a degree in chemical engineering. “I have a college education and stable family. If my parents hadn’t supported me, I’m sure it would have been harder to leave the situation. But a lot of people think that only meek women get involved in domestic violence situations – or that they have a poor (socioeconomic) background or lack education. When I’ve told friends of mine about him (Corsmeier), everyone is surprised. You? With that guy?”
When asked if she loved Corsmeier, she said “Yes, probably. That’s why I stayed with him for so long. I told myself that he’s got mental issues. People who are bipolar or schizophrenic lose their family and friends. He was alone. I felt sympathy for him. I tried to explain to him that I’m not a doctor and can’t tell him why he sees things he sees. But when he’d flip into a psychosis, he couldn’t see how bad it was. When his violence escalated, I knew he could kill me.”
Sankowski was asked if she believed Corsmeier’s violence was a character defect or part of his mental illness. “I don’t think his violence is from the mental illness. I think it’s a character issue.”
Asked if she was still performing in the porn industry, she replied, “No. I don’t care about the porn world or those people.”
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